Developing Unshakeable Self-Esteem in Children
Reasons why your child should enroll in Martial Arts America.
Read on and let me tell you why...
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"Your Child's Self-Esteem is PRICELESS"
Dear Parent,
Here is how we at Martial Arts America build unshakeable self-esteem in children.
Our children's self esteem will determine what friends they chose to be with and what choices they make on a daily basis. Some adults may wonder what important choices kids need to make, so here are a few examples:
It's a Saturday night and your teenage child is out with friends. They go to a party and there is booz everywhere and no adult supervision. Your child needs to deicide: Do I stay or do I go? Here is another example: Kids go to a party when they want to return home the kid with the car has been drinking. Your child needs to decide: do I go with my friends or stand up and say no! I can go on and on of course. But the point is that these are life or death decisions and kids have to make them all the time.
Building self-esteem is not a one shot deal. It must to be an ongoing process to be successful. During the process that we have in place, each child is constantly recognized for his or her successes, even if they are very small successes. When children enter into difficult or tumultuous times in their lives they need to have an anchor and having an ongoing constant process that works on their self-esteem is the anchor they need.
The method we use is unique and simple and it is built in to the system of karate that we teach. We make sure the students understand what it means to earn a belt. Then we prepare them well and reward them in front of their parents and peers.
- We have created an ongoing process that starts at 4 years of age.
- We have set clearly defined goals for our students - students thrive when expectations are clear.
- We provide children with tools so that they know how to exercise PERSISTENCE instead of quitting when things get hard.
- We celebrate our student's successes.
- And then…we raise the bar and begin again.
There are certain times that seem to be difficult for a lot of children, maybe you have seen your own child go through one or even a few of these:
Starting first grade; starting third grade, entering middle school; entering high school; moving to a new school or neighborhood; being separated from mom or dad for any length of time due to work, deployment or any other reason.
As we go through this we talk to our students about a thing called "the moment of truth". The moment of truth is the moment where we really want to quit because we are tired or discouraged or bored. Yes, we said we wanted to be a black belt but so what? And yes we said we would do one hundred pushups but after twenty-eight we realized this was really, really hard. So let's just forget it.
The good news is that kids can't quit, only parents can quit, so as long as we the parents do not give up on our kids they will never quit. The crucial thing is to have an ongoing system of challenges and rewards that make sense and that have value. A black belt has what I call a "WOW" factor. Black belt is something that gets a "WOW" response. It's universally recognized as a tremendous achievement and besides, it's almost like becoming a super hero. We give kids an opportunity to be something that is "WOW" and we fill it up with terrific stuff, like lessons on Goal Setting, and Leadership, how to be develop unshakeable self esteem and become successful.
Many children don't know how to tap into their own inner resources. There are even some parents who don't know how to get their kids to be the best they can be. It is a difficult task and we need all the help we can get. How do we get our children to be leaders? How do we get them to make good friends and choices?
Each child that is allowed to benefit from what we teach at the dojo adds to the fabric of our lives, adds to the wealth of our community and believe it or not, may very well make important contributions to humanity some day. Once we tap into a child's potential that child will amaze us.
If we tell kids they will be a black belt and a leader and then give them the tools to do this, they will every time. Guaranteed! Now THAT builds Self Esteem.
His attitude change was noticed immediately...
Our family cannot say enough about the benefits that having our son in Karate made. His attitude change was noticed immediately. He seemed more at ease and confident and even his school work improved.
Jon and Sandi Manifold
...given my son, and so many others like him, the invaluable tools of self-esteem, self-discipline and self-confidence...
Miko Peled and Martial Arts America has given my son, and so many others like him, the invaluable tools of self-esteem, self-discipline and self-confidence. My son became stronger, more focused and more centered; he has grown to have a greater sense of respect for himself and for others. Sensei Miko provides an invaluable service to our community with his karate school.
Brad Willis
Now, you may be asking, how does all this work? And why does karate manage to do a better job teaching it?
Again, more than any other sport, Karate gives your child the chance to explore her innate powers.Children's Karate lessons. She’ll marvel (as you will) as she increases in strength, flexibility endurance, balance, and harmony. Yet this is only the start.
In fact, her physical skills act as a foundation for something much more important: the development of her value skills, mental and spiritual. And not cut off from her physical skills, but intimately connected - even bonded-to them. Like this:
Courage:
Your child finds the courage to move outside of his comfort zone. He wills himself to take on more difficult karate moves and skills.
As he does so, he learns that whatever he sows, so he reaps. He learns to take responsibility for his actions. He suddenly sees his life as a constant, never-ending journey of life-giving improvement.
Kids learn that their bodies and minds are strong, powerful, and worthy of respect...
In martial arts classes, participants are constantly challenged then praised for doing their best. That builds confidence…. Kids learn that their bodies and minds are strong, powerful, and worthy of respect. Once a child learns this, his whole attitude shifts. He carries himself with an ease and assurance that tells bullies to move on.
Robyn Silverman, PhD (Child Development specialist and Director Of Character Development at EEMA Fitness in MA
Staying power:
At Martial Arts America we will help your child set positive goals. It is important for each child to learn to set short term, intermediate and long term goals. Here every child's goal is the Black Belt. A Black Belt is a symbol of excellence in Martial Arts. It is an important tool for instructors and parents to use in developing desire, perseverance and loyalty as well as teaching the importance of following through in any activity we pursue.
As your child's training progresses, your child finds joy in improving her physical stamina. She can walk farther, run longer, practice skills until she gets them right. In turn, she develops perseverance. She sticks things out. With the help of her teachers, she strives harder, longer to reach her goals.
"Where performance is measured, performance improves." Yet, your child has to first accept where he stands now. That means measuring current strengths. Above all, he learns that to succeed, he needs to know himself. This results in a keener focus. He learns to make eye contact with his teacher (and not just in karate.) He pays greater attention to what each teacher says.
...They help pre-schoolers develop social skills and improve their attention spans;..
Martial arts offer something for all ages; They help pre-schoolers develop social skills and improve their attention spans; they give grade-schoolers and teenagers a confidence boost while teaching self-control; and they leave parents with greater stamina, improved edurance, and a trimmer toned body
MSN Health & Fitness Section 1/30/07 by Jeanette Moninger of Prevention Magazine
These are just three of the powerful, energizing values your child will get from the Martial Arts America in Coronado program. In short, you can look forward to your child developing:
- Powerful Self Control: She’ll refuse to give in to negative peer pressure. She’ll have deeper respect for rules.
- Improved Focus: She’ll learn what’s needed, along with the skill to "zero in" on critical tasks at hand. Normal, yet time-wasting, childhood distractions won’t get in her way.
- Fearless Self Confidence: Watch as your child finds the courage to open any door life has to offer.
...they learn to focus, clear their minds of distractions, and take control of their body movements..
In martial arts classes, they learn to focus, clear their minds of distractions, and take control of their body movements…. in martial arts, they aren’t graded or criticized…. They’re simply encouraged to give their best effort.
Richard B. Coolman, MD, Developmental-Behavioral Pediatrician at Santa Clara Valley Medical Center in San Jose, CA.
Academic Excellence:
Martial Arts America promotes academic excellence in your child. All young people in the program are required to demonstrate that they are doing their best at school prior to receiving their belts. Achieving a Black Belt demonstrates important character traits such as self-discipline and persistence. Students who achieve their Black Belt make sure to mention in on their college applications.
Towering Role-Model Teachers:
As you might guess, all of this couldn’t have happened unless I had the very best teachers. To make sure I have the very best each of them have years of experience in my system and have been thoroughly trained in teaching skills. Today, they are all martial arts experts - advanced Black Belts, in fact. You can meet them here.
...Karate is all about discipline and respect.
Adults stop in their tracks when my daughter informs them that karate is all about discipline and respect.
Irene Nuzzo
Our son Austin is proof that Sensei Miko and his team of instructors really are an asset to our community...
Our son Austin is proof that Sensei Miko and his team of instructors really are an asset to our community and that a black belt is a white belt that never gave up. Austin started karate at the age of 6 1/2...more
Chris and Jim O'Brien
At Martial Arts America in Coronado are committed to teaching the martial art tradition of Okinawan Goju-Ryu Karate-do.
We believe that the experience gained through practice of Goju-Ryu-Karate-Do gives people the tools to lead a full and happy life and will enable people to positively affect their family, community and environment.
We are reminded that The way of karate is the way of virtue and that - winning has no value unless it is winning through virtue.
We teach Goju-Ryu Karate as a form of human development and personal empowerment by effectively combining the tradition of Okinawan Goju-Ryu Karate with modern teaching techniques.
We have realized that the experience of training in Goju-Ryu karate is rare and priceless and we have created an environment where this experience is made available to people of practially all ages and all walks of life.
We believe that excellence in the martial arts is defined as follows:
- HANDS of a Black Belt - Achieving great physical strength and mastering martial skills which empower us mentally and physically.
- HEAD of a Black Belt - Pursuing knowledge and an analytical capacity which lead to self-discipline and good judgement.
- HEART of a Black Belt - Cultivating an indomitable spirit, a sense of justice and compassion, which allow us to understand ourselves and our environment.
Our goal in teaching Okinawan Goju-Ryu Karate is to be a means by which to:
- CREATE a desire to pursue knowledge and learning
- ENCOURAGE people of all ages to pursue a spiritual path.
- SEEK and find mental and physical balance
- SHOW people of all ages that they are capable with significant things to offer.
- ENCOURAGE people to exercise good judgement, self discipline and responsibility.
"OK -- I Might Be Interested… What Do I Do Next?"
I’d like to make it possible for you to see, first hand, and with your own child (and, at my own personal expense), exactly how we make good on all of these stunning claims. Now, here comes the good part. We’ve made it incredibly easy. Here’s how:
Take Advantage of our Special Internet Offer - register below and receive a FREE Introductory Program: (A $99.00 value.) I’m offering you two Karate lessons (just your child and the teacher) -- for FREE and with absolutely no strings attached. See for yourself if, in fact, I can give your child the powerful benefits promised in this letter.
To schedule your child’s free classes, simply call:
619-435-8223
FREE Karate Uniform (A $59.00 value). If you’re among the first 25 to call, I’ll even give your child a genuine Karate uniform. It’s his to keep, even if you decide the our Martial Arts America program is not what you are looking for.
Remember, call 619-435-8223
FREE Student-Parent Conference Before or during the introductory program we will meet one on one to discuss your child’s needs and your child’s progress. We will explain the benefits of our program and share the developmental process for your child in our program. We will give you tips on how to reinforce your child’s development and share with you his progress.
Here’s how it works:
Watch with your own eyes as your child gets coached by a top karate teacher...
Class one at the karate school. Your child begins by learning the profound influence of the martial arts "bow." The watch as he:
- Warms to the idea of emotional respect, for both himself and others.
- Gains power from the ability to be "confident yet respectful."
- Connects with the "Three Skills of Listening."
Then glow as you hear him recite the first principle of the Student Creed: "I intend to develop myself in a positive manner, and avoid anything that would reduce my mental growth or my physical health."
Class Two at the karate school. More bows. Then watch as your child:
- Gains super confidence with the "Three primary techniques of all martial arts systems," and, builds rapport with a SUPER ROLE MODEL Black Belt instructor.
Believe me. In two short private lessons, your child will come away with her self-confidence greatly improved. Not just in how she feels. She’ll actually end up with real "Life Skills." Skills that she can put to powerful use right now, today.
All while enjoying the fun and excitement of an upbeat martial arts program
To register for the free introductory program Pick up the phone and call. 619-435-8223
We'll answer any additional questions that you may have and schedule a special time with our head instructor to work with you and your child. Please act quickly because these classes fill up fast - and, we are committed to maintaining a small student-teacher ratio in our beginner’s classes.
Whatever you do, I urge you to register today. Believe me...
Karate is the best thing you can do for your child!.
BUT BE WARNED. Remember, I’m inviting you to check out one of the most successful martial arts programs in the country! Call as soon as possible. Our programs FILL-UP FAST! Register Early and insure your spot.
Don’t worry! It is consistently stressed to all students that karate skills require them never to be abusive or offensive and are only for use defensively. After a short period of time students become markedly less aggressive while maintaining confidence and high personal self-esteem.
Thank you for your time and I hope to meet you at my school.
Sincerely,
Miko Peled
6th Degree Black Belt
Chief Instructor
sensei@coronadokarate.com
P.S. Don't forget - Martial Arts America lessons for your child increases their confidence, energy and spirit. Taking Martial Arts America lessons helps your child as he/she develops towards greater academic achievement and higher self respect.
They will learn to increase their strength and fitness levels both in mind and body. Martial Arts America teaches your child the values and discipline needed to persevere. They learn that fighting is less about fighting others but more about fighting what is inside themselves. Self doubts and innermost fears.
The disciplines learned in karate helps them learn how to conquer those fears and self-doubts and gives them the ability to transfer those skills to other areas of life.
P.S.S. All this talk of values may have misled you. Be assured, I do teach karate as everyone likes to think of it. Your child will end up knowing how to protect herself. She’ll know how to avoid danger, how to use conflict resolution techniques - but without once throwing a kick, block or punch!
Finally, pick up the phone, call: 619-435-8223 right now to schedule your private introductory time. There is absolutely NO OBLIGATION or charge for this introductory program!. If you choose not to continue with us - we’ll even give you alternative ideas for your child - and, even recommend our competitors - if there is a program more appropriate for your needs. Obviously, I think you’ll find our program very valuable and interesting but - you have no risk and no obligation - and, NOTHING to lose and everything to gain by trying our program.